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45歳の40代独身男性が遭遇した婚活の悲惨な状況!どうやったら結婚できるのか、それを知りたい

2018/06/16
 
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40代独身の男性に対する偏見と先入観

男性は40歳以上、女性は30歳以上になるとわがままだと言われています。

特に一度も結婚をしていないバツイチの場合は何か問題があるとされています。

経済的な問題、自分の身内の問題、そして容姿や態度。

ただ、これは当たらずとも遠からずです。

全部、今まで自分の思う通り生きていた男女ですから当然ながら我が強い。

エゴが強いわけです。

食べ物から、自分のやりたいこと。

恋愛経験が少ないと当然、自分のために時間を使ってきたわけです。

そうなると、男女共に自分の思うような行動をしない相手に批判的ではあります。



 

どういったことが相手から非難されるのか

男性なら、ズバリ年収です。

女性なら、その容姿や態度。

男性に女性が求める最大の結婚条件は経済力です。

これだけ世の中が女性を働かせようと言っているのにもかかわらず女性が求めるのは年収なのです。

逆に女性に男性が求めるものはその容姿や性格です。

これは個人的見解ですが、嫌な思いをすることはしばしば。

とにかく、自分の要求だけを出して相手に妥協をしようとしない。

そうなると当然ながら好条件の男性に女性は集中をします。

でも、よく考えてください。

好条件の男性があなたに振り向く可能性があるでしょうか。

ここがアンマッチな状況となっているのが今の婚活状況です。

ひとまず整理しよう

男性なら、服装。

そして、話し方や自分のプロフィールの書き方を考えましょう。

年収が低いというのはネックではありますがしっかりとしたヴィジョンを示すことは重要です。

一方、女性は話し方を自分で録音しましょう。

嫌な女になっていませんか?

早口で相手に質問をしまくっていませんか?

これは婚活会場ではよく見る光景です。

男性は優しい笑顔を。

女性は深田恭子のような愛嬌を持ちましょう。



 

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